Mary Immaculate Catholic Church ť Suggestion Box

We want to thank you, the parishioners of Mary Immaculate, for all your suggestions and questions.

Each month suggestions and questions from the "Parish Suggestion Box" (located in the narthex of the church) will be compiled. The suggestions and questions will be broken down into five main categories: Operational, Facilities and Space Related, Liturgical, Pastoral and School. Fr. Michael, in collaboration with the Parish Council, will provide the replies (school suggestions will be forwarded to the Principal of the school).

Note: All suggestions are transcribed exactly as written

Queremos dareles las gracias a los parroquianos de Mary Inmaculado, para todas sus sugerencias y preguntas.

Cada mes sugerencias y pregunta del "Caja de Sugerencia de Parroquia" (situado en el narthex de la iglesia) serán compilado. Las sugerencias y las preguntas serán divididas en cinco principales categorías: Operacional, las Facilidades y el Espacio Relacionaron, Litúrgico, Pastoral y la Escuela. Fr. Michael, en la colaboración con el Concilio de Parroquia, proporcionará las respuestas (sugerencias de escuela serán adelantadas al Director de la escuela).

La nota: Todas sugerencias son transcritas exactamente como fueron escritas
Para la traducción de todas las sugerencias y respuestas, por favor llama a la oficina de la Iglesia

REMINDER: Prayer intentions can be written in our 'Book of Intentions' in the Narthex or placed in the Divine Mercy prayer baskets.

RECORDATORIO: Las intenciones de oración pueden ser escritas en nuestro 'Libro de Intenciones' en el Narthex o colocados en la canasta de oración de 'Divine Mercy'.

August 2010

LITURGY / MUSIC / SACRAMENTS

Suggestion: Dress attire at this church should be addressed.

Response: Thank you for your concern. This issue has been raised several times by parishioners and the responses are posted on the MIC website. To recap, the approach taken has been to bring this up with the head of the ministry in which the person is involved and have him/her handle it. When appropriate, the matter is discussed privately with the person. Additionally, a dress code for the ministries has been published on our website.

Suggestion: I think that church choir should rehearse more. Also let kids join the choir to sing

Response: All choirs rehearse for at least an hour a week in order to prepare for the liturgy. Those who cantor have additional rehearsals on top of that. Considering there are 9 different choral ensembles that actively participate on a week to week basis in providing music for the liturgy, I am curious as to which ensemble needs more rehearsing. Please come speak with me on a private basis so I can answer your question more directly regarding the group in question. Additionally, children have always been welcome to sing in any group they feel called to participate in. There are no restrictions regarding youth participation, even though the 5:00pm Sunday mass was originally designated as a "youth mass".

Suggestion: My suggestion to this great church is to change the female singer at 5pm mass. She don't sing well. Sorry

Response: All cantors go through spiritual and vocal preparation for each week's celebration. Importance should be placed more so on how the cantor conveys the meanings of the text than other facets. Mary Immaculate cantors are highly encouraged to continue vocal training in private, or participate in outside professional, semi professional or volunteer ensembles. We are thankful for our volunteers in the music ministry, but we also always welcome voices, trained or untrained, to join in making a joyful noise unto the Lord. If I may direct you to the General Instruction of the Roman Missal, Chapter Three, 102 - 104, these sections talk about the role of the cantor and choir in Liturgy. GIRM 104 states "It is fitting that there be a cantor or a choir director to lead and sustain the people's singing. When in fact there is no choir, it is up to the cantor to lead the different chants, with the people taking part." I bring this up because the community is to actively participate in singing during the liturgy, not just listen to the music. A community that sings together prays together, and a community that prays together becomes like the disciples in the upper room, invoking the Holy Spirit and bringing forth the grace of God.

SPACE RELATED / FACILITIES

Suggestion: I think there should be chairs out next to the walls at church

Response: We have had several requests for chairs in the ambulatory. The designated overflow area for the church is the narthex. The sound system is very good in there, and the view is better than from the ambulatory. In addition, chairs in the ambulatory would block the way to the exit when mass is over possibly causing a bottleneck between a mass that is trying to leave and the next mass trying to enter. Lastly, there are concerns about the ability to quickly exit the building in the unfortunate event of a fire.

Suggestion: It is too cold on church. The music is too loud on Sunday night. I have never seen anyone park in the reserved clergy parking space. We could use it. Handicapped are parking in the striped area beside the handicapped spots. They need to be utilized as such – they are wasted space otherwise

Response: There are several issues raised here which will be addressed one at a time:

· The temperature in the church has been repeatedly brought to our attention. The thermostat has already been raised. To continue to raise the temperature in the church would cause the altar and choir area to become almost unbearably hot. We have noticed there are spots in the church that are not as cold as others. You might try moving around to find a warmer spot. If all else fails, plan to be cold at mass and bring a jacket.

· The volume of the music on Sunday night has already been addressed with the music ministry. We will monitor the situation and continue to make the necessary adjustments.

· The clergy space is almost always taken during mass. That is where Father Michael parks. If it is unoccupied when you arrive it is because Father Michael or the presiding priest has not yet arrived.

· The number of handicapped spots and the striped areas next to them are dictated by city code. There has to be enough room for a wheelchair to disembark comfortably from a wheelchair-enabled van.

Suggestion: Fr. Michael, During this past Saturday evening (May 8) Mass, my wife leaned to whisper in my ear. “I'm leaving. I can't bear this cold air anymore.” I persuaded her to remain by snuggling up as close to me as possible and she made it to the end. I had anticipated the cold by dressing more warmly than she, but was cold also. We finished the Mass looking almost like a dating couple back in the days of drive-in movies.

Father, why does it have to be so cold? I bet that if you, at homily time, asked for all those who think the church should be warmer for services to stand, 90% or more would stand. Every person we've asked says it's too cold. Some say that they have complained but to no avail.

We don't understand why the parish doesn't use every cost cutting measure to minimize expenses. If we were in charge we'd run the A/C system at a temperature that would elicit requests for lowering the thermostats, and then lower them until the requests stop. Even during the past winter, when all the arriving warm bodies raised the temperature to a level that caused people to remove their winter coats, the A/C would kick in! And people would grab their coats and put them back on.

We are wasting money and certainly contributing, if not to global warming, to pollution. We have the Christian calling to love our neighbor and we think they include those yet to be born, our descendents. It's our duty to use natural resources prudently and pass on a world that has a healthy environment. On the personal level my wife and I don't like seeing our and other's contributions wasted, when the savings, that would come from a lower electric bill and an extended life of the equipment, could be used to help retire our debt. We beg you to please check into this problem.

Don't get us wrong. We love Mary Immaculate; the church is beautiful. We love you and all those who minister to us. We also feel honored to have you as our pastor and want to wish you a very Happy forthcoming thirteenth anniversary.

May God bless you, One of the many couples who love the warmth of Mary Immaculate Community but not the cold church.

Response: This issue was addressed in a previous response above.

Sugerencia: Se expresó la preocupación sobre la reacción de un sacerdote visitante, cuando un parroquiano trató de besarle la mano, como es una tradición en el país de origen.

Suggestion: A concern was expressed about a visiting priest's reaction when a parishioner attempted to kiss his hand, as is a tradition in the home country.

Respuesta: Gracias por su sugerencia. Es desafortunado que esto haya pasado. Esto se ha tratado con este sacerdote. Cada sacerdote reacciona diferentemente en ciertas situaciones. Y esto es una tradición infrecuente y pudo haber cogido al sacerdote desprevenido.

Response: It is unfortunate this happened. This has been addressed with this priest. Each priest reacts differently in certain situations. This is an uncommon tradition and may have caught the priest off guard.

May 2010

LITURGY / MUSIC / SACRAMENTS

Sugerencia: Me gustaria que hubiera misa en espanol por lo menos una yez entre semana.

Respuesta: Hasta que tal tiempo como vocaciónes vengan de la comunidad hispana, todo lo que podemos hacer como una parroquia, es hacer oraciónes para vocaciónes.

Suggestion: I would like to have a Mass in Spanish at least once a week.

Response: Until we have more vocations in the Hispanic community, as a parish all we can do is continue to pray for vocations.

Suggestion: Please remind the people no food or drink in church. Please announce this at mass.

Response: Signs have been posted at various places in the narthex. We will continue to monitor the situation and decide if another announcement is warranted. Thank you for your concern.

March 2010

LITURGY / MUSIC / SACRAMENTS

Suggestion: Please put that music that you played at all times. I think it was monks or something like that. It was beautiful. It seemed the church felt oh so holy. We are a holy church, remember.

Response: We are glad you enjoy the chant music. The music is played regularly, but it may be with the noise in the church you are unable to hear.

Suggestion: We are offending Jesus Christ & insulting Him by the way we make Holy Communion with Him by taking the bread into our sinful hands and then into our mouths not only that but we start chewing him very unrespectful toward our God. This must come to a HALT (STOP). We should receive the bread from the hand of the priest who has the Holy Spirit right into our mouths then keep it in our mouth in whole until we take the wine (His blood) wet it then swallowed in whole. Please leave pride & the ways of man behind & do what the Lord is asking.

Response: Thank you for your concern for our Lord. This is an issue that has arisen many times within the church. Speaking in John 6, Jesus is quite explicit when he exhorts his disciples to “eat my flesh and drink my blood”. The footnotes of the New American Bible tell us “the verb used in these verses is not the classical Greek verb used of human eating, but that of animal eating: "munch," "gnaw." This may be part of John's emphasis on the reality of the flesh and blood of Jesus (cf John 6:55), but the same verb eventually became the ordinary verb in Greek meaning "eat."

John was very explicit in explaining not only what Jesus said the disciples were to do, (eat Jesus' flesh) but how they were to do it (munch and gnaw). Further, if we are to believe our hands are sinful, then would not our mouth be even more so? Jesus tells us in MT 15:11 “It is not what enters one's mouth that defiles that person; but what comes out of the mouth is what defiles one." Without the grace of God we are totally unfit to receive Him in communion. That grace is provided in the sacrament of reconciliation. Our sins, now removed, pose no barrier to our eating His Precious Body and drinking His Precious Blood in the manner prescribed by Jesus. As a more practical matter, there are many young, elderly and ill within our Catholic faith that may find it difficult to swallow the Precious Body whole, softened though it may be with the Precious Blood. If one chooses not to partake of the Precious Blood, then swallowing whole is made that much more difficult. If anyone feels others are being disrespectful to our Lord, we should continue to receive as we wish and say a prayer for them, while at the same time worrying more about the log in our eye than the splinter in our neighbor's eye.

Suggestion: Have you considered moving the 5:00pm Saturday/Sunday mass to 4:00pm? I know other parishes have a 4:00pm weekend mass. A long time “senior” parishioner.

Response: Thanks for your suggestion. With the heavy schedule of baptisms, weddings, and quincineras, the church often is in use on Saturdays up until shortly before the 5:00 Mass and afterwards as well.

Suggestion: Why don't we put the toy and games in a quiet room where no one will get disturbed?

Response: We do not have a room available for this purpose. Even if we did have such a room, we do not have staff who could supervise children, so parents would be missing Mass in order to be with their children. We encourage families to attend Mass together, and hope that parents will use good judgment in stepping out into the narthex if their children are having a difficult moment during Mass.

Suggestion: I wish the celebrant of every mass could remind the congregation not to leave til the priest has reached the foyer after Mass. Many walk out after communion.

Response: Our Catholic tradition is that all in attendance wait until after the priest processes out of the sanctuary before exiting, and then do so in a quiet and orderly manner. It is sad that some choose to leave before the final commission to go forth and spread the word. When one considers Judas was the only person to leave early at the first mass, the decision to stay until the end becomes a bit easier.

Suggestion: I have (2) suggestions for the New Year:

1. We should consider expanding the distribution of communion to the back of the church, as is done in most parish churches. Benefits include efficiency, ease of distribution to disabled who can’t walk up the aisle, and parking, early arrivals blocking egress.

Response: The flow of traffic from the pews along with the relatively small size of the church, do not lend themselves to distribution in the back of the church. The ushers have been instructed to watch for disabled and notify the Extraordinary Minister whose line finishes first so they can receive.

2. Long term – We should consider better lighting for the main alter. Much planning went into systems for PA and music, but not much for lighting. The overhead lights are inadequate.

Response: Thank you for your suggestion. This has already been addressed. The new lighting was installed recently.

Suggestion: Dear Fr. Michael, It is very distracting when everyone is silently adoring Jesus at the elevation of the Body and Blood, to have 2 or 3 people praying out loud. We have an official acclamation after we have had our moment of silence. How could we ask people to please stay silent? Thanks.

Response: This is a habit which many longtime lifelong Catholics are accustomed to because they were taught to say this acclamation. While you are welcome to tactfully point out to them that it is distracting to you, perhaps it would be more comfortable to sit in an area where these people are not seated.

Suggestion: Speak about the importance of marriage to unwed couples.

Response: We have an excellent marriage preparation program for couples preparing for marriage, as well as a number of marriage enrichment activities. We hope that by continually publicizing these opportunities, unmarried couples will see the value and importance of marriage. If you know of unmarried couples who would like to discuss the possibility of marriage, encourage them to contact the church office.

Suggestion: The new introduce yourself to those around you – very uncomfortable – most just say good morning- & again with shaking hands flu season everyone coughing not very good. Please rethink.

Response: See below.

Suggestion: Please, please rethink the hand shaking before mass!! It is not helpful in preparing a prayerful attitude to worship. The protestant idea is the church is a social opportunity. We come to pray with the Lord. SCS parish is very social, like this, not praying orienting.

Response: This will be brought to the attention of the welcoming committee.

The following suggestions were submitted in Spanish:

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Sugerencia: Por favor sacar a los papas que tienen niños llorando para que la gente pueda escucha la misa. Gracias

Respuesta: Como cortesía a otros recomendamos que padres que tienen niños llorando favor de llevarlos al vestíbulo. El vestíbulo está equipado con altavoz para escuchar la misa mientras el niño se calma. Este medido es para evitar distracción para su vecino y para los padres. Les pedimos por respeto Al Bendito Santísimo del Altar no usar la capilla al lado como cuarto de niños llorando o jugando. Gracias.

Suggestion: Please can we take out crying children so others can hear the Mass

Response: As a courtesy to others, we recommend parents with restless or crying children take them into the narthex. This will prevent these children from becoming a distraction to those around them, or to the priest. The narthex has speakers that allow the mass to be heard, so nothing will be missed. We respectfully ask to please refrain from using the chapel as a cry room for babies or play room for older children.

Sugerencia: Cantos en las misas diarias. El frente nuestro ante el Santísimo Sacramento.

Respuesta: Por decisión de los padres que prefieren no cantar a capela no hay cantos en la Misa diarias. Y por los désenos del arquitecto El Santísimo fue puesto en la capilla.

Suggestion: Songs at daily mass, the holy Sacrament at the front alter.

Response: The priests at Mary Immaculate are uncomfortable leading songs a capella. By architectural design, the Blessed Sacrament was placed in the chapel.

SPACE RELATED / FACILITIES

Suggestion: Dear Father Michael can you please put bench in front. Two weeks ago after noon mass waited til 2:15 with lady wheel chair for Dart bus. Thank you. Sorry to bother you.

Response: For safety reasons this is not something in the best interests of parishioners. There is quite a bit of traffic in the parking lot, along with the foot traffic to and from the church. There are benches in the area between the church and school you are welcome to use. During inclement weather we suggest using the benches in the narthex and instructing your party to look for you there.

Suggestion: Can't hear more volume. Age you know.

Response: See below.

Suggestion: Turn up the volume please!!.

Response: The volume in the church has been turned up. The church has amplified receivers available for those needing extra help hearing, just ask an usher. You may also try the narthex, which has great speakers.

Suggestion: Please! More handicap parking spaces – at least for 5:30 Saturday mass.

Response: Several handicapped spaces have been added over the past 3 years. If you are arriving for a 5:30 Mass on Saturday, it is likely that all of the parking spaces are filled, since Mass is at 5:00.

MARY IMMACULATE SCHOOL

Suggestion: Once stated in a sermon that sometimes we need to point out blind spots.

Response: (A personnel concern regarding Mary Immaculate School was submitted. Since personnel issues are confidential, this is being referred to the pastor and the School Advisory Council.).

MISCELLANEOUS / PRAYER and REFLECTION

The following suggestions were submitted in Spanish:

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Sugerencia: Yo quiero pedir para una buena navidad.

Respuesta: Gracias y Que Dios la bendiga siempre. (Por favor de poner sus oraciones en el libro de intensiones que está en el vestíbulo. Esta localizado enseguida del buzón de las sugerencias.)

Suggestion: I wish that everyone has a great Christmas

Response: Thanks and May God Bless you. (Please put all prayer intentions in the prayer intention book in the narthex. It is located next to the suggestion box.)

Sugerencia: Le pido a Dios que no nos olvide.

Respuesta: Dios siempre nos cuida y nos quiere. (Por favor de poner sus oraciones en el libro de intensiones que está en el vestíbulo. Esta localizado enseguida del buzón de las sugerencias.)

Suggestion: I ask God that he would not forget us

Response: God always looks after us and loves us (Please put all prayer intentions in the prayer intention book in the narthex. It is located next to the suggestion box.)

Suggestion: Poor can't help the poor. Only rich can help the poor because we have the time and resources. God didn't call us to be broke, He called us to know His word and His will, which in turn gives us wisdom, understanding and with that we acquire riches because with God all things are possible. The rich have many friends, but the poor even his neighbor hates him.

Response: (Please put all prayer intentions in the prayer intention book in the narthex. It is located next to the suggestion box.)

February 2010

OPERATIONAL

Suggestion: Fr. Michael, since Mary Immaculate Church has such a wonderful web-site, I am requesting your consideration on making an addition to it. Please consider adding a link, perhaps called “Funeral Ministry”, which would provide current information on funeral activity taking place during the immediate week. List the name of the deceased, the day and time of the funeral mass, rosary service, etc. I recognize that this would require timely staff attention, but I believe that this service would be appreciated. There have been a few occasions during past years when I would have wanted to pay my respects by attending the funeral mass of an acquaintance but only learned about it after the fact. Many thanks.

Response: Check out our website! You can now sign up online to be notified.

Suggestion: The Christmas concert is so nice! Could the choir do a couple of concerts each year?

Response: Thanks! We will forward your suggestion to our Music Director.

Suggestion: It's always about money. Tell us what the paper thing is all about?? And tell the people how easy it is to collect them all week and drop off on Sunday!!

Response: Good idea. We will publicize this in the bulletin.

Suggestion: Put the tabernacle with the Blessed Sacrament in the sanctuary.

Response: Please refer to an earlier suggestion box entry in July 2009 in which we provided an explanation for the location of the tabernacle.

Suggestion: How about give half the church income to charity. Those people need the money more than we do. (I'm not crazy!)

Response: The church, as a charitable organization, uses all donations to fund the mission and ministry of the church.

Suggestion: Good morning. Is there any way we can make the mass schedule laminated with magnet attached to the back so that it can posted in the refrigerator. Thanks.

Response: The schedule is on the website and in the bulletin so that parishioners can cut it out and place it on the refrigerator if they wish.

Suggestion: Could Father Michael turn up the volume on his microphone. I believe my mother would be able to hear his sermon. Thank you!

Response: The volume is set at its highest level. We will look into alternative listening devices. Audio-assistive devices are available and we will check into them for you.

Suggestion: Father: I suggest conference room be named “The Apostles Room” and brides room be named “Mary's Room.” Thanks. (name)

Response: Thanks for your suggestion. In keeping with the wishes of the Building Committee, the rooms are named based on their function and purpose.

Suggestion: Please resume reading the names of the seriously ill at Sunday masses. It's the only way most of us know to call those who need visits, offers of help; we need to know their names. It's very important that those people have visits from church members.

Response: There are several ways to be informed about this. The names of the sick are published on our posted prayer lists and in the Book of Intentions. You are welcome to contact the church office to be placed on the Prayer Chain as well.

Suggestion: Parishioners need to be quiet when other parishioners are praying to the saints after the masses. Parishioners need to go outside and talk to family and or friends after all masses. It's very rude that parishioners are all talking to friends and other parishioners are trying to pray to the saints. The noise carries very loud and it's hard to pray. I would very much appreciate if something is done!

Response: It is a challenge to manage all of the traffic in the church, especially on weekends. Sometimes people are entering for the next Mass just as the previous Mass is finishing. The chapel is available for quiet prayer if the conversation between Masses in the sanctuary is distracting.

Suggestion: Could we please move the candles closer to the altar. When the EM's go up I get worried that if someone steps backward they catch on fire. It is an accident waiting to happen.

Response: Thank you for your observations. Our EMs are trained to be mindful of their surroundings and their position on the altar.

Suggestion: Last week the cantor's dress was held up by strings. This week the cantor had on rubber flip flops. Can someone please teach them how to dress?

Response: We are in the process of approving a dress code for the liturgical ministries, which should provide guidance in the area of appropriate attire for Mass. We will also bring this to the attention of the Music Director.

Suggestion: What about a T.V. monitor that has computer capability to show all announcements and sick list, and special events, set up in narthex where it could be read at any time. Deacon Phil

Response: We hope parishioners are aware of the many ways to be informed of parish news, such as the bulletin, pulpit announcements, website, and newsletters.

LITURGICAL

Suggestion: The new youth mass is awesome!

Response: Thanks, we’d love to see even more participation in the liturgical roles for this Mass (choir, lectors, ushers, EMs, etc.)

Suggestion: Why are longtime volunteers in the liturgical ministries being made to feel like they are not doing an adequate job and need to have things “fixed” by a newly appointed expert all of a sudden, after not receiving feedback before this? If we did not measure up or were doing things incorrectly, why weren't we told long before this?

Response: We need more information about your concern. Please share your input on this with Father Michael or with our new Coordinator of Adult Education, Beth Crouch.

Suggestion: Que haya cantos en la misa diaria. Aunque no este presente un coro dios nos da nuestra voz. That there be songs at daily mass even though there is no choir, God will give us our voice.

Response: While singing enhances the Mass, it is not required, and it is at the discretion of the presider. The priests at Mary Immaculate are uncomfortable leading songs a capella.

SPACE RELATED

Suggestion: Add holy water to each side of main doors for ease of use. (diagram enclosed)

Response: Liturgically speaking, it is proper for people to be at one font to symbolize the oneness of our Baptism.

Suggestion: There is a broken tile & also grout needs to be replaced on some area of the chapel. Have a great day!

Response: Thanks, we will advise the maintenance staff about this.

PASTORAL

Suggestion: Get the focus more on what Jesus Christ did on the cross, than what the Virgin Mary did... God Bless.

Response: Thank you.

MISCELLANEOUS

The following suggestions were submitted in Spanish:

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Sugerencia: Les pido por todos los presos que son privados de su livertad injustamente en especial por (nombre). Y por toda mi familia que necesita tranqulidad, por mi hermano (nombre) que quiro que se acerque mas a Dios. Bueno y porque yo tenga exito en my escuela en este regreso a clases. Dios los bendiga gracias. (name)

Respuesta: Puede inscribir sus intenciones en nuestro Libro de Intenciones para que todos puedan rezar por Ud. y por su familia.

Suggestion: I ask your prayers for all prisoners that are unjustly deprived of their liberty, especially for (name). And for all my family who needs peace, for my brother (name) whom I want to be closer to God. Good and because I have succeeded in my school in this return to class. May God bless you.

Response: These intentions can be written in our Book of Intentions so that everyone can pray for you and your family.

Sugerencia: Padre Maguel necesitamos la familia ispana un saserdote mas animoso que entendamos bien el mensage.

Respuesta: ¡Ore por favor para vocaciones, especialmente en la comunidad hispana! Somos bendecidos en Maria Inmaculada tener 2 sacerdotes que hablan español, pero ninguno de los dos es un hablante nativo. Es difícil transmitir mensajes de la misma manera que un hablante nativo.

Suggestion: Father Michael, the Spanish family needs a priest that is friendlier, that we can understand his message well.

Response: Please pray for vocations, especially in the Hispanic community! We are blessed at Mary Immaculate to have 2 priests who speak Spanish, but neither is a native speaker. It is difficult for non-native speakers to convey messages in the same way a native speaker can.

Sugerencia: Te pido por la operacion de (nombre) que todo salga bien y por los papas del nino que (nombres) tengan resignacion que tengan salud ayudalos mi Senor abrazalos, protegelos. Consuelalos. (name)

Respuesta: Pueden inscribir sus intenciones en nuestro Libro de Intenciones para que todos puedan rezar por estas personas.

Suggestion: I ask for the operation of (name) for everything to come out okay and for the parents of the child, that (name and name) have resignation and have good health help them my God, embrace them, protect them, counsel them.

Response: These intentions can be written in our Book of Intentions so that everyone can pray for these people.

September 2009

OPERATIONAL

Suggestion: During the construction of our Church, I saw many parishioners contributing in many ways towards its completion, some giving a dollar her and there and others, with their talents. It seems unfair that only a few would be acknowledged when so many contributed. The memorial plaque is a good idea, but instead of spending all that money in some many plaques, I suggest ONLY ONE PLAQUE should be made thanking all those that in one way or another contributed, and the money saved, should be applied to reduce the debt. Thank you.

Response: Thank you for your suggestion. We share your concern about cost, and we also need to honor the original agreement to acknowledge the gifts of everyone. We think you will be pleased with the results.

Suggestion: Father Michael, you need to address the dress attire for church. It is getting out of hand. I see it as lack of respect for God & the church. A teenager with short shorts sat behind me at 10:30 mass.

Response: We have set a dress code for liturgical ministers to set an example for all parishioners.

Suggestion: Father, the narthex looks amazing! Clean. No clutter. Blessings! Great job.

Response: Thanks for noticing!

Suggestion: The priest is too mean. He needs manners.
Response: Please discuss with Father Michael.

Suggestion: Please, update the suggestions on your web page.

Response: Thank you - we will update the web page as soon as we can.

LITURGICAL

Suggestion: Schedule of Homily. Can you post a schedule of which person will be speaking the Homily for each mass on a monthly or weekly basis?

Response: The presider/deacon schedule is posted on the website. Generally the presider preaches at his Mass, except on the second Sunday, when deacons are assigned to preach.

Suggestion: Dear Father Michael: The 7:30 mass and the 8:45 mass are too close together. People are coming in before the Mass is completed...trying to get seating spaces, sometimes pushing themselves in. The traffic outside is unbelievable on some Sundays. Why can't you wait 15 minutes and give everybody a chance to get out and in... make the 8:45 mass start at 9:00? (It used to be 9:00 AM). Thanks, 7:30 am parishioners

Response: Mass schedules are very complicated. A change on one end creates a ripple effect and impacts all the later Masses. This would change the Mass times for every Mass. One reason we do not have music at 7:30AM is to keep that Mass short.

PASTORAL

Suggestion: If we keep getting submissions with prayer intentions, perhaps we could add a sentence on the website or small sign on the suggestion box that says that prayer intentions can be written in our Book of Intentions or placed in the Divine Mercy prayer baskets.

Response: We now have the Book of Intentions for this purpose.

MISCELLANEOUS

The following suggestions were submitted in Spanish:

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Sugerencia: Dios era muy weno y siempre sera

Respuesta: ¡Si!

Sugerencia: Mi sugerencia es que alla misa en espanol todos los dias. Gracias.

Respuesta: Nosotros ya hemos estudiado este y determinado que la corriente horario diario de Misa satisface las necesidades de nuestra Parroquia.

Sugerencia: Yo sugiero que debemos tener retiros, para jovenes matrimonios aqui en esta paroquia algo de ese tipo para la comunidad Hispana el la radio catolica escucho como en otras paroquis los minesterio Hispanas tienen eventos pero estan legos para munchos de nosotro seria bueno que nosotros puedamos disfrutar de eso tambien de ves en cuando. Gracias que dis los bendiga.

Respuesta: Adelantaremos su idea a Sr. Betty.

July 2009

OPERATIONAL

Suggestion: Decorate the chapel with drawings or designs of baby angels, saints, etc. That way it will look a lot better and pretty.

Response: The focus is the Eucharist, so the design is simple in order not to distract from the prayerful atmosphere.

Suggestion: Decorate the altar more. Something else besides flowers.

Response: We try to decorate seasonally. We need more volunteers who have an interest in decorating. Please contact us if you have an interest in volunteering.

Suggestion: Prayer box or urn at the altar. Include a prayer box or urn at the altar to keep all the names of the sick and deceased of the parish so they can be prayed for and included at every mass. Constant prayer will flow for the sick, deceased, and any other special prayers for individual and community needs that are included in the box or urn. (name)

Response: We are looking at the possibility of a Book of Intentions for this very purpose.

LITURGICAL

Suggestion: I was pleased to find the cantors using the Responsorial Psalm from the missalette for a while. Now we're back to different ones, not even in the song book. I don't understand the words when I can't read along. I'm sure I'm not the only one with this problem. Some cantors are better than others. With some it's a complete

Response: (Response from Thomas Woods): Thank you for your inquiry. The missalette provided in the pews is an excellent resource for following along and can be used as a guide during mass. There are many musical settings of the psalms that are written every year that are approved for use by the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops and many Catholic music publishing companies for use in the liturgy. I can understand why reading along may be a troubling thing, especially when some of the words are adapted the fit the musical setting. I'd like to point you to the General Instruction of the Roman Missal, which defines the Catholic Liturgy and what is, and what is not acceptable:

"The Responsorial Psalm

After the first reading comes the responsorial Psalm, which is an integral part of the Liturgy of the Word and holds great liturgical and pastoral importance, because it fosters meditation on the word of God.

The responsorial Psalm should correspond to each reading and should, as a rule, be taken from the Lectionary.

It is preferable that the responsorial Psalm be sung, at least as far as the people's response is concerned. Hence, the psalmist, or the cantor of the Psalm, sings the verses of the Psalm from the ambo or another suitable place. The entire congregation remains seated and listens but, as a rule, takes part by singing the response, except when the Psalm is sung straight through without a response. In order, however, that the people may be able to sing the Psalm response more readily, texts of some responses and Psalms have been chosen for the various seasons of the year or for the various categories of Saints. These may be used in place of the text corresponding to the reading whenever the Psalm is sung. If the Psalm cannot be sung, then it should be recited in such a way that it is particularly suited to fostering meditation on the word of God.

In the dioceses of the United States of America, the following may also be sung in place of the Psalm assigned in the Lectionary for Mass: either the proper or seasonal antiphon and Psalm from the Lectionary, as found either in the Roman Gradual or Simple Gradual or in another musical setting; or an antiphon and Psalm from another collection of the psalms and antiphons, including psalms arranged in metrical form, providing that they have been approved by the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops or the Diocesan Bishop. Songs or hymns may not be used in place of the responsorial Psalm." (GIRM 61)

As you can see, we do the very best with the resources we have on a weekly basis. Never has a seasonal psalm been sung for several weeks on end, and rarely has the refrain's text not matched the text from the missalette, which is published by Oregon Catholic Press, one of many Catholic publishing companies. Again, sometimes the texts of the verses may be arranged differently for the setting that day.

The cantors who sing at mass are volunteers from the parish. They rehearse on a bi-monthly basis (in addition to the regular weekly choir rehearsals) and are chosen not only by their musical ability, but also by their commitment to providing a prayerful environment to the parish through song. The psalms are chosen not by the cantors, but by the music director, in accordance with GIRM 40:

"Great importance should therefore be attached to the use of singing in the celebration of the Mass, with due consideration for the culture of the people and abilities of each liturgical assembly. Although it is not always necessary (e.g., in weekday Masses) to sing all the texts that are of themselves meant to be sung, every care should be taken that singing by the ministers and the people is not absent in celebrations that occur on Sundays and on holy days of obligation".

The cantors are trained in diction, projection, proper formation of words, gestures, and many other technical aspects that are involved in this ministry. It is an ongoing training, and there are many dedicated and talented members in this ministry who contribute to building up the Body of Christ here at Mary Immaculate.

Thank you for taking the time to make your suggestion. Should you need more details, please feel free to contact me directly. I'll be happy to speak with you in more detail regarding our cantor ministry at your convenience.

-Thomas Woods, Director of Music

Suggestion: Can the tabernacle be put back on the altar?

Response: At this time, due to the parameters from the Diocesan Liturgical Committee, we are not able to move it.

The following suggestions were submitted in Spanish:

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Sugerencia: Quiero que por favor que si nos pueden dar una misa diarien espano a las 7:00 P.M.

Respuesta: Gracias. Hicimos alguna investigación para ver si había suficiente interés en agregar una misa diaria en español. Cuándo nosotros miramos los resultados, no parecieron que podríamos agregar una misa, especialmente porque nosotros sólo tenemos dos sacerdotes. Ore por favor para (mas) vocaciones. Tenemos una comunión y dos misas diariamente durante la semana.

Suggestion: I would like, please, if you could have a daily mass in Spanish at 7:00 P.M.

Response: Thank you. We did do some research to see if there was enough interest in adding a daily Mass in Spanish. When we looked at the results, it did not appear that we could add a Mass, particularly since we only have two priests. Please pray for vocations. We do have a Communion service and two Masses daily during the week.

Sugerencia: Necesitamos misa a las 7:00 todo los días.

Respuesta: Vea por favor respuesta anterior

Suggestion: We need mass at 7:00 every day.

Response: See above response

Sugerencia: Estimado Padre Mike, Mucho antes de que surgiera el “swine flu”, yo había observado que muchos de los feligreses en nuestra iglesia, no tomaban la Sangre de Cristo durante la Comunión, (posiblemente por temor de poner sus labios donde tantas personas extrañas habían puesto previamente los suyos.) Hace varios meses, yo observe durante un misa en televisión desde San Antonio, que durante la Comunión el monaguillo sostenía el cáliz con la Sangre de Cristo y al sacerdote mojaba la punta de la hostia ahí antes de dársela a los feligreses. Yo encontré que esa era una excelente practica. Consideraría Ud. Esta sugerencia para practicarls permanentemente en nuestra iglesia? Gracias Padre.

Respuesta: El sacerdote o el diácono pueden intinct; sin embargo, esto significaría que todos serían requeridos recibir en la lengua. Recuerde por favor que Jesús es presente, el cuerpo y la sangre, el alma y la divinidad, en el pan consagrado.

Suggestion: Long before the “swine flu”, I had observed that many of the parishioners in our church did not drink the Blood of Christ during communion. (Possibly for fear of putting their lips where many strange people had previously put theirs.) Many months ago, I observed during one mass televised from San Antonio, that during communion, the altar boy would hold the cup with the Blood of Christ and the priest would dip the tip of the host there before giving it to the parishioners. I found that was an excellent practice. Would you consider this suggestion to practice permanently in this church? Thank you, Father.

Response: The priest or deacon may intinct; however, this would mean that everyone would be required to receive on the tongue. Please remember that Jesus is present, body and blood, soul and divinity, in the consecrated bread.

SPACE RELATED

Suggestion: There are not enough handicapped parking spaces close to the church entrance. Why did you take 2 of them for the visiting priest and the winner of the auction? (They are almost always empty)

Response: We actually added several handicapped spaces after the new church opened. The spaces for clergy and the auction winner were taken from regular parking spaces. We will refer this concern to our facilities staff for evaluation.

Suggestion: It looks so small. Don't have room. Change color blue.

Response: We need more information in order to provide an adequate response.

PASTORAL

Suggestion: Dear Father Forge, I am very concerned. (The writer mentioned a personnel matter.)

Response: There was a concern submitted with regard to a confidential matter. Although it was addressed, we are not able to publish personnel-related information.

MISCELLANEOUS

Suggestion: We need to pray for vocations and for holy men! I am visiting from another state. I was appalled at the immodest dress of so many men. (shorts & sandals) These men are in need of instruction in proper dress.

Response: Thank you for your observation. We have noticed this ourselves. It is never appropriate to come to church dressed in a way that is not respectful.

Suggestion: Texting is becoming a problem. I suggest the ushers ask the individual to turn off the cell phone. (name)

Response: Thank you for your observation. It is never appropriate to send or receive text messages during Mass. We hope adults will use common sense and common courtesy and will encourage their children to do the same.

The following suggestion was submitted in Spanish.

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Sugerencia: Dios quida me por favor.

Respuesta: Oramos para todos nuestros parroquianos en cada Misa

Suggestion: God take care of me please.

Response: We pray for all of our parishioners at every Mass.

Sugerencia: Le agradezco muchisimo su hermosa oración de sanación en la cual se hace presente el Espíritu Santo y el amor de Dios. Que Dios lo bendiga y ayuda a seguir siempre sirviéndole fielmente de ese manera tan carismática Padre Michael. Le pido que cuando se acuerde siempre le pida al senor por la sanación de Divarry. Gracias!

Suggestion: I appreciate very much your beautiful prayer of healing in which the Holy Spirit is present and the love of God. May God bless you and continue to always help you faithfully serve in this charismatic manner, Father Michael. I ask that when you remember, always ask our Lord for the healing of Divarry. Thanks!

June 2009

OPERATIONAL

Suggestion: Put on a new coat of paint

Response: Please contact us with further details so that we can identify the areas you have identified as needing to be painted. Thanks!

Suggestion: Dear Father, the ceiling in the women's restroom needs repair. Thanks!

Response: Thank you; we will inform our facilities manager.

Suggestion: Please consider moderating temperature in church. It's too cold. Save energy.

Response: Adjustments have been made, and this has been addressed. Thanks.

Suggestion: Please arrange for a mail slot of some kind near the parish office so we can leave a payment or donation after hours. Thank you.

Response: This suggestion will be directed to our Finance Council for approval

LITURGICAL

Suggestion: More active youth groups both in English and Spanish masses

Response: Our Music Ministry and Youth Ministry leaders have had announcements in the bulletin for several months asking for volunteers to help make this happen. We would welcome your participation.

Suggestion: Father Forge, Is it possible to say the Angelus after the 5:30 PM mass? St. Ann church in Coppell says the Angelus before the 12 noon mass. St. Catherine's church in Peter's Colony street says the St. Francis prayers and one prayer (I forget) after the 8:30 AM mass. And one prayer to God the Father before the mass. All Saints church in Arapaho says the St. Michael the Archangel prayer after the 6:30 AM & 9:30 AM mass too. Since 6 PM is the Angelus, is it possible if you could lead in the Angelus prayer or Msgr. Sagra whoever said the mass at 5:30 pm. I hope you will say yes, Father. Thank you.

Response: Thank you for your suggestion. The Angelus, a beautiful tradition, can be led by any member of the faithful, not only an ordained minister. Since the 5:30 PM Mass doesn’t always end at exactly 6:00 PM it would be more appropriate to have an individual 0r a group take responsibility for leading the Angelus at 6:00 PM. We can ask around and see if the Rosary group that meets after the 5:30 PM Mass would like to take responsibility for leading the Angelus. If you would like to take the lead on this, please feel free to contact Fr. Michael directly to make arrangements for this.

Suggestion: Please wait until we are through praying until the 2^nd collections are in our face.

Response: Prayer is very individual; it would be difficult to tell when everyone is finished praying. Waiting would extend the Mass time and add to the congestion and crowding between Masses, which is a safety factor.

SPACE RELATED

PASTORAL

Suggestion: Dear Father Michael, Many of us have to go to work early and the only time we can go to daily mass is early in the morning. If we cannot attend the 6:30 AM mass, we cannot go at any other time. Please reconsider your decision to stop the 6:30 mass. It is our daily spiritual food. Thanks. You are our shepherd, we are your sheeps.

Response: First of all, please continue to pray for vocations. We have now increased the daily opportunities to receive the Eucharist to 3 times a day during the week: the Communion Service at 6:30 AM, as well as the 8:00 Mass and the 5:30 PM Mass.

Suggestion: Have a whole day talking about each commandment. Anonymous.

Response: Please contact us with further details.

MISCELLANEOUS

Suggestion: Charge less for camp outs please.

Response: We don’t have enough information to know which camp outs you mean. There are several events of this nature from the various organizations.

Suggestion: We ask for more camp outs.

Response: We need more information to know which camp outs you mean. There are several events of this nature from the various organizations. Please talk to the leaders of your group about this. Let us know what you find out.

Suggestion: Father Michael, (my husband) and I were admiring the wall plaque listing the names of the donors for the new piano. We were wondering if something similar could be done for the names of the donors for the building of the new church. The typed lists of names were first posted so there could be any additional corrections or changes made if necessary. Since the new church was dedicated in April of 2006 surely after 3 years all changes have been made. The typed lists do look a bit shabby and don't add anything to the look of the church.

Response: This is in the works.

Suggestion: Why don't we make snack time?

Response: We do not have snacks during Mass. Where and when did you want snacks to be served?

The following suggestions were submitted in Spanish.

Las sugerencias siguiente fue sometida en español:

Sugerencia: Que nos esforcemos por ser mas unidos, que en cada misa, nos tomemos unos minutos para dialogar, y llegar a la conclusion de que cada uno de nosotros necesitamos comunicarnos y ser mas hermanables.

Tratar de hacer amistad, y ayudarnos tanto moral, como espiritualmente y porque no materialmente tambien los que tengamos algo extra.

Espero en Dios que asi sea ya que son mis mejores deseos.

-Te pido Virgen que protejes con tu mento a toda mi familia de todo mal y peligro y sobre todo de muchas salud.

-Solicito que nombren a mis abuelos por favor Ramiro Mendiola y Eva Coronado de Mendiola por su 43 aniversario y si los puedo bendicir al fina. Gracias.

-Yo pienso que todos nosotros los Catolicos; deberiamos de ser mas unidos, por amor a Nuestro Padre banlasloso. Tal vez recomiendonos y estudiar su palabra eso seria....magnifico. Gracias por su fina atención.

Respuesta: Gracias por tu oración. Si tiene mas preguntas o intenciones, llame a la oficina y pueden ayudarle con la Cadena do Oración.

Sugerencia: El Ángelo del centro no coordina con la decoración de la Iglesia.

Respuesta: Puede darnos más detalles, por favor?

February - May 2009

OPERATIONAL

Suggestion: Please announce at mass no food, no drinks, no gum in chapel or church.

Response: An announcement will be made periodically at mass.

Suggestion: Thank you for the Gregorian chants that are playing. It is wonderful to hear during meditation in the chapel.

Response: You are welcome!

LITURGICAL

Suggestion: I like to be able to read the responsorial psalm. Could we use one that's in the book and have the song number posted?

Response: Thank you for being an active participant in the Liturgy of the Word! The text of the responsorial psalm is printed in the missalette directly after the first reading. The Music Director and the choirs prepare the musical version of the psalm from choir publications which correspond to the liturgy. Every effort is made to find a musical arrangement in which the wording matches the wording in the missalette as closely as possible. We hope you will consider joining the choir; new members are always welcome.

Suggestion: Please let us take both bread and wine. Throughout history the Catholic Church had been cutting corners. Some churches already cut the wine (blood of Jesus C) to poor sinners. Now, please for our sake do not run out of wine and just walk away. Have another chalice ready so when on is finished right away to go bring the other one. Why do you willingly negligent deny us to take away the blood. Why only the bread without the blood. Do not leave us standing in humiliation that we couldn't take the wine (because there is no more)

Response: This is an opportunity to remind all of our parishioners that the consecrated host is the body and blood, soul and divinity of Jesus Christ. There is no need to feel like the Eucharist is incomplete without the wine. The appropriate amount of wine to be consecrated is not always possible to predict because not everyone chooses to drink from the cup. Please remember that if there are consecrated hosts left after communion, they may be placed back in the tabernacle; however, if there is consecrated wine left over, it must be consumed immediately by the ministers of communion.

Suggestion: Need to make the “welcome” a true spiritual welcoming by recognizing visitors. No need for standing but acknowledge them as they raise their hands. (name and phone #)

Response: A Welcoming Committee has been formed and is looking at a variety of ways to create an atmosphere where all feel welcome.

Suggestion: Are guest speakers from missions and charities given any guidelines by the diocese? Please make sure they are aware that we have back-to-back masses. Last Sunday was a mess. The 10:30 mass lasted until 11:50, and it was very dangerous trying to get into the parking lot and church. The 12:00 mass was late getting started and lasted until 1:25. So then it was the same craziness trying to get out of the church and the parking lot when people were arriving for the next mass. Also, it was not necessary for the visiting priest to go through the brochure page by page. He could have made his key points (on how to help the poor) more effectively in half the time. He could use some preaching tips from Father Michael and Father Bradley.

Response: Father Michael has shared this feedback with the Food for the Poor headquarters so that they can take it into account for the future. Although there might have been some logistical inconveniences created by the length of the homily, our generous parishioners contributed over $17,000 to this worthy cause.

Suggestion: The lectors need to be funnier and more convincing.

Response: A lector’s responsibility is to proclaim the Word of the Lord with reverence and dignity. Our lectors take part in annual update training and spiritual renewal sessions. However, providing entertainment is not part of their assigned role in the lector ministry.

The following suggestions were submitted in Spanish:

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Suggestion: Please let there be a mass at 5:30 on First Fridays. Our family does First Fridays and we do not want to stop attending.

Sugerencia: Por favor que aya misa de 5:30 los viernes primero pues yo y mi familia hacemos los viernes primeros, y no los queremos cortar.

Response: If mass is requested in Spanish let us pray for vocations. Mary Immaculate offers mass every day at 5:30pm in English.

La respuesta: Si esta pidiendo misa en español oremos por vocaciones. Nosotros en María Inmaculada ofrecemos misa todos los días a las 5.30 de la tarde en Ingles.

Sugerencia: Por favor necesitamos misa los viernes primero at la 5:30 de la tarde. (name)

Respuesta; Si esta pidiendo misa en Español oremos por vocaciones. Nosotros en María Inmaculada ofrecemos misa todos los días a las 5.30 de la tarde.

Suggestion: Please we need mass First Fridays at 5:30 in the evening.

Response; If mass is requested in Spanish let us pray for vocations. Mary Immaculate offers mass every day at 5:30pm.

Sugerencia: En este iglesia, que es la casa de Dios, seamos mas hermanbiles y unidos todos, por amor a Dios y que unidos progresemos mas y mas in la palabra de Dios; que cada vez la entendemos mas y que semos obedientes con Dios nuestro Senor; que dejimos todo egiesmo y seamos mas justo. Que Dios los bendiga a todos ustedbes y a mi que no me olvide. (name and phone #)

Respuesta: Gracias por su oración.

Suggestion: In this church, that is the house of God, I pray that we be united in God with brotherly love and that united we can progress more and more with the word of God; that every day we be more obedient with God our Lord; that we leave all egotism and be more just. May God bless you all and may he not forget me.

Response: Thank you for your prayer.

Suggestion: Can our church please have blessing of the throats on St. Blaise's feast day next year?

Response: We normally do this at the daily Mass on the feast of St. Blaise, but due to an oversight it was omitted this year. Thanks for the reminder.

Suggestion: Father Michael, thank you for all that you do for us. My suggestion: We are in the middle of the flu season. Schools have closed because of this and personal contact is the main culprit. I suggest during this period that at the time of the offering of the sign of peace we make no hand contact but raise a hand or slight bow as acknowledgement. Also, the Eucharistic ministers are in a habit of blessing children by laying a hand on the head of the child and continues distributing the host with that hand; another way to spread the flu. Just a thought. Maybe I need more faith that God will protect. God bless! (name)

Response: Thanks for your concern. The Bishops generally advise us to use common sense in these matters. We will share these thoughts with our Extraordinary Ministers and will discuss ways to be prudent.

Suggestion: Please practice the names of people to be prayed for during the petitions. Too many names are being unnecessarily mutilated and mispronounced.

Response: This is a valid point. We do ask our lectors and deacons to practice beforehand, but sometimes when the list of names is very lengthy, it can become a challenge. We are evaluating options to see how we can best ensure that everyone who seeks our prayers is included in a meaningful way.

SPACE RELATED

Suggestion: Please a waste basket outside the entrance door labeled “gum only”.

Response: This will be referred to the facilities manager.

PASTORAL

Suggestion: We need the Stephan Ministry in our parish. Many of us who are handicapped, disabled and/or housebound have very little contact with church. St. Monica's is very active with this, I have heard. God bless.

Response: Thank you for your suggestion. We will pass this recommendation to our Family Life Ministry for research. We do have a “Grief/Bereavement” ministry at Mary Immaculate. Please contact Family Life Ministry for further information.

Suggestion: Please for the sake of souls

1. If confession are at 6:00 to 6:30 the souls have in mind that if they made it at 6:30 we still can be confess because it says 6:00 to 6:30 P.M or 8:30 A.M. To 9:00 A.M. On the other hand once is 6:30 or 9:0 A.M. Jesus chosen sons leave the confessional room right at 6:30 or 9:00. No one must leave the confessional room until the last soul sitting in the pew has made reparation for their sin. That day could be someone's last day. If die in sin you will see that soul din torment when you die.

2. I would like to see if you can change confessional times if they can be before masses. It's so dangerous for a soul to receive bread and wine then confess.

3. Jesus is asking out of love if His chosen sons can spend more days and time in the confessional rooms for the sake of souls. There is so many souls that are willing to make reparation.

4. Thank you for listening.

Response: to #1: Thank you for your concerns about Mary Immaculate’s reconciliation schedule. Since we have only two priests, there are only so many times we can schedule confessions around their schedules. Many times the priests have prior commitments such as Baptisms or other parish-related events and must leave on time. As a reminder, there is no confession held during Holy Week.

Response: to #2: Our priests are preparing for Mass at that time; there is not enough time between Masses to allow for reconciliation at that time.

Response: to #3: Please pray for vocations. We need more priests to accommodate all the needs of the parish.

Response: to #4: You are welcome!

Suggestion: Father, I have some concerns about the 8^th grade confirmation program that I would like to discuss. (name and phone #)

Response: Fr. Michael will contact you about the 8^th grade confirmation.

Suggestion: Ahh, your church is so nice! Call me for help in my marriage! Please. (phone #)

Response: Fr. Michael will contact you.

Suggestion: It was early Sunday morning 2 weeks ago and I was awakened by these words: reaching out. I went straight to my computer and this is what I put together. How can we reach out and is it possible to bring the mass to people that are ill. I went to mass that day only to realize that Samuel was also awakened by God's calling in the reading. I suggested my thoughts to Father Michael. He said put it in the suggestion box. I don't have satellite or cable and last week I was ill and not able to attend mass. It would have been nice to be able to view mass on my computer. And I am left with this concept: can we record the mass and put it on the website? In Jesus Christ all things are possible. (name)

Response: We do not currently have the technology to record a Mass and place it on our website. However, Masses can be heard daily at 7:00 AM on Guadalupe Radio at KATH station 910 am or KJON 850 am (Español). Also, a daily Mass can be watched on the internet at www.themass.com or www.thedailymass.com.

Suggestion: More confessions. Please.

Response: Since we have only two priests, there are only so many times we can schedule confessions around their schedules. Many times the priests have prior commitments such as Baptisms or other parish-related events. Please pray for vocations. We need more priests to accommodate all the needs of the parish.

MISCELLANEOUS

Suggestion: Besides having a sign up table for ministries one weekend a year, it would be nice to have one ministry or organization highlighted each week in a certain spot in the bulletin. For example: one week, spotlight on the AIDS Supper Club. The next week spotlight on the Prayer Shawl Ministry. That would help raise awareness of the variety of programs in our church and maybe more people would sign up.

Response: Good idea! We will check with the welcoming committee to see if they want to take this on

Suggestion: Senior parishioners need to apply for Kroger's senior card. They can save 10% on Kroger brands and still help the parish make some funds.

Response: There are two different cards, the Kroger Plus and the Kroger Gift Card. We encourage all our parishioners to use the reloadable Kroger Gift Card.

Suggestion: Possibly when the parish has a mission all meeting and classes during that week could be canceled so people will go to the mission. (name)

Response: Good observation. This needs to be coordinated by the church staff.

The following suggestion was submitted in Spanish.

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Sugerencia: Yo sugiero qu seamos mas unidos todos nosotros los Católicos, con Dios manda y sigamos sus buenos ejemplos y hagamos su Divina voluntad. Llevanda a saba los 10 mandamientos. No fornicanos; honraros a tu padre y a tu madre; no mataras, no dejas el nombre de Dios en vano; amaras a tu próximo como a ti mismo, etc. etc. Yo he tratado de cumplir con todo esto y siento un gran felicidad, ya que considera qu su Espíritu de Dios esta conmigo, y El me ayuda siempre, por mas problemas que tengamos, hay que tener paciencia y confiar en El nos ayuda. Y es El quieren realmente nos ama. Gracias por su fina atención, y que Dios N. S. los bendiga, son mis mejores deseas. (name)

Respuesta: Gracias por tu oracion.

January 2009

OPERATIONAL

Suggestion: Clean the church.

Response: We have on staff one person that cleans our offices, church and restrooms for 5000 parishioners. We believe he does a great job. However if any one is interested in starting a group of volunteers to have a spring clean day, we could help the janitor.

Suggestion: More signs saying no food and drink allowed in church.

Response: Several signs are posted entering the east doors and in the narthex before entering the church.

Suggestion: “Eucharistic Chapel of Divine Mercy” sign, “E” in the word “Mercy” looks like an “F”.

Response: The sign was reported as needing repair to office staff and hopefully is repaired by now.

Suggestion: Please make the two front pews for the handicapped.

Response: Handicapped pews are available all around the front of the altar area and are almost always empty.

The following suggestion was submitted in Spanish:

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Suggestion: A small container with water for the flowers.

Sugerencia: Un pequeño contenedor para poder poner agua a los floreros.

Response: The office upon request will provide vases and containers for water.

La respuesta: La iglesia proveerá los floreros y los cantaros del agua lo único que se debe hacer es llamar a la oficina y poner su petición.

Suggestion: Put a container in the narthex to collect box tops for education for those of us who don't have occasion to go into the school. Put a notice in the bulletin so everyone will know about this and can help out along with our recycling efforts, etc. The money raised funds the purchase of classroom learning materials, school computers, etc. Find the box tops and labels on 100's of common grocery items; Campbell's products, Betty Crocker, and many more.

Response: Due to space limitations in the narthex, we ask that any box tops be delivered to the school or placed in an envelope to be turned in to the church office.

Suggestion: More pastors written comments in the weekly bulletin.

Response: We would like to get the Pastor’s Desk column in the bulletin at least once a month. Unfortunately, a lot depends upon the Pastor’s schedule and availability to write the column by deadline. He will, however, do his best to publish the column on a regular basis.

Suggestion: Finalize the church memorial plaque program.

Response: This project will begin mid spring and possibly be completed by mid or late summer.

Suggestion: The MI marquee, instead of birthdays, how about a Catholic educator's quote or scriptural quote.

Response: The marquee is owned and maintained by the school, which auctions the birthday notices. Funds raised by the auctions help support the school.

The following suggestion was submitted in Spanish.

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Suggestion: Please more promotion of Catholic radio, 850 AM in Spanish and 910 AM in English.

Sugerencia: Por favor promocionen más al radio Católica 850 AM en Español y 910 AM en Ingles.

Response: Dave Palmer from the Guadalupe Radio Network has been to Mary Immaculate to speak about and promote Catholic radio. In addition, the weekly bulletin advertises the radio stations and fliers are available in the narthex.

La respuesta: Dave Palmer, de Guadalupe Radio Network, ha estado en Mary Inmaculada para hablar acerca de y promover la radio católica. Además, el boletín anuncia las emisoras y los folletos están disponibles en el vestíbulo.

Suggestion: In my opinion I think it would be great if you put a board where the community could put their cards. Announcements going outside. New businesses.

Response: In order to be fair to all, our Parish Finance Council has a policy of not promoting particular businesses. This type of “announcement board” is difficult to monitor and must be screened on a daily basis to make sure there are no inappropriate or outdated postings. We encourage parishioners to share information on their businesses through the advertising opportunities available in church bulletins and in the Texas Catholic.

SPACE RELATED

Suggestion: There should be a nursery for the babies.

Response: The narthex, which is located in the entrance to the church, has been designated as the area parents can take crying babies or small children. There are speakers in the narthex which allow you to listen to the mass while attending to your children. Unfortunately, due to space limitations and the safe environment program it is not feasible to have a nursery at this time.

The following suggestion was submitted in Spanish.

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Suggestion: It would be nice if we had a place with religious articles: books, pro-life rosaries, art, bibles, or bible tabs. This is also a way to educate the parishioners.

Sugerencia: Seria muy bueno si hubiera un lugar para artículos religiosos: libros, rosarios pro-vida, cuadros, biblias, separadores para las biblias, etc. También esta es un modo de educar a los parroquianos.

Response: There is a Catholic Arts store located on Valwood Parkway in Farmers Branch. There are also other Catholic religious websites where you can purchase items. Our church does not have a separate area to store and sell religious items. We would also need people from our parish to man the store and buy the items.

La respuesta: Hay una tienda, Catholic Art & Gifts, situado en Valwood Parkway en Farmers Branch. Hay también otros sitios por la Internet tocante religiosos católicos donde usted puede comprar artículos. Nuestra iglesia no tiene área separada para almacenar y vender artículos religiosos. También necesitaríamos a personas de nuestra parroquia para vender los artículos.

LITURGICAL

Suggestion: Play the chant music regularly before mass and during confession times as it masks distracting sounds and focuses people on prayer.

Response: Thank you; we have received many compliments on the chant music. It is played before and after Masses on Sundays. We are currently looking for a volunteer or volunteers who will agree to turn it on in the morning and off in the evening during the week days.

Suggestion: Next month, and forever, could maybe every third holy hour be a silent one? I went in the evening (7:40 or so) and had only about 10 – 15 quiet moments. (The rosary began in Spanish so I left.)

Response: The various prayer groups have been asked to respect the preference for quiet prayer time during holy hour.

The following suggestion was submitted in Spanish.

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Suggestion: A holy hour for families.

Sugerencia: Santa hora para las familias.

Response: Parents are welcome to bring children to the holy hour and to nurture the concept of quiet, individual prayer. For the safety of the children, and to maintain a prayerful atmosphere, it is important that parents make sure the children are supervised throughout this prayer time and that they understand the purpose of holy hour.

La respuesta: Los padres están libre de traer niños a la hora santa y para alimentar el concepto de la calma, oración individual. Para la seguridad de los niños, y para mantener una atmósfera de oración, es importante que los niños estén supervisados durante este tiempo de oración y que ellos comprenden el propósito de hora santa.

The following suggestion was submitted in Spanish.

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Suggestion: One hour of Blessed Sacrament.

Sugerencia: Una hora santa.

Response: We’re not sure exactly what is being suggested here. The Blessed Sacrament is present in the chapel at all times except for Good Friday. There are several scheduled opportunities for prayer and adoration in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament. Dates and times are advertised in the bulletin.

La respuesta: No estamos seguros exactamente lo que es sugerido aquí. El Sacramento Bendito esta siempre presente en la capilla menos el Viernes Santo. Hay varios oportunidades horarios para oración y adoración en la presencia del Sacramento Bendito. Las fechas y los tiempos son anunciados en el boletín.

Suggestion: The altar and flowers are quite beautiful. As a suggestion it would be nice to see the lectern for readings and homily. Msgr. Andy is not very tall. So much on the altar is a little distracting to the center of our worship which is the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass.

Response: Thank you for noticing the lovely appearance of the altar. We do have guidelines and limitations about what is permitted on the altar in order to keep the focus on the liturgy. Some of the items on the altar, such as the candles, are part of the liturgy. The Art and Environment Committee works with the Pastor in determining the appropriateness of the altar area decorations.

PASTORAL

The following suggestion was submitted in Spanish.

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Suggestion: We need a priest who speaks better Spanish.

Sugerencia: Un padre que habla mejor español.

Response: Many of the priests and deacons in our diocese are not native Spanish speakers and have undertaken the study of the Spanish language to better serve their parishioners. Until such time as vocations come from the Spanish speaking community, all we as a parish can do is pray for vocations.

La respuesta: Muchos de los sacerdotes y diáconos en nuestra diócesis no son oradores de lengua maternas y han estudiado la idioma español para mejor servir a sus parroquianos. Hasta que tal tiempo como vocaciónes vengan de la comunidad hispana, todo lo que podemos hacer como una parroquia, es hacer oraciónes para vocaciónes.

The following suggestion was submitted in Spanish.

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Suggestion: The Spanish mass in the afternoon can barely be understood.

Sugerencia: La misa de español en la tarde casi no se entiende.

Response: The meaning of this suggestion was unclear. This could refer to several different problems.

· If this refers to the sound system or acoustics, then it may help to sit in one of the middle sections. The sound on the sides of the altar, close to the large stained glass windows is not as good as it is in the middle sections.

· If this refers to the noise level in the congregation during mass, then you may consider reminding your noisy neighbor, in a loving and prayerful manner, that the sanctuary is a place of prayer and worship, not for conversation.

· If this refers to the ability of the priest to speak Spanish, then as suggested in the previous section, pray for vocations for native Spanish speaking priests.

La respuesta: Esta sugerencia no está claro. Esto se podría referirse a varios problemas diferentes.

· Si esto se refiere al sistema de sonido o la acústica, entonces sera mejor sentarse en una de las secciónes medianas. El sonido en los lados del altar, cerca a las vidrieras grandes no es tan bueno como en las secciónes medianas.

· Si esto se refiere al ruido en la congregación durante la misa, entonces usted puede considerar a recordar a su vecino ruidoso, en una manera amoroso y piadoso, que el santuario es un lugar de oración y adoración, no para conversación.

· Si esto se refiere a la habilidad del sacerdote hablar español, entonces como sugerido en la sección anterior, por favor hagan oraciónes de vocaciónes para sacerdotes hispanos en sus lengua maternas.

The following suggestion was submitted in Spanish.

La sugerencia siguiente fue sometida en español:

Suggestion: The Spanish mass should not be late.

Sugerencia: Que no sea tarde la misa.

Response: Again, the meaning of this suggestion was unclear.

· If this refers to the mass starting after its scheduled time, we hope this is an isolated incident. The priests are aware of the mass times and do their best to start on time.

· If this refers to the scheduled time of the mass being too late in the afternoon, there are seven masses on Sunday and time must be allowed for traffic to flow in and out between masses. The Spanish mass has been scheduled later in the afternoon to allow those who must work on Sunday an opportunity to attend mass after work. We have received many favorable comments about the late Spanish mass on Sunday. Many parishioners have said if this mass were scheduled earlier they would not be able to attend mass at all on Sunday.

La respuesta: Otra vez, esta sugerencia no está claro.

· Si esto se refiere a la misa que comienza después de la hora debida, nosotros esperamos que esto sea un incidente aislado. Los sacerdotes están de acuerdo del tiempo de las misas y hacen lo mejor para comenzar a la hora.

· Si esto se refiere a la hora de la misa que es muy tarde en el día, hay siete misas el domingo y el tráfico del estacionamento se tiene que dar consideración. La misa de español se ha echo más tarde para permitir a los que tienen que trabajar el domingo una oportunidad de asistir la misa después del trabajo. Hemos recibido muchos comentarios favorables de esta misa en español los domingos por la tarde. Muchos parroquianos han dicho que si esta misa fuera planificada antes, ellos no podrían asistir a la misa el domingo.

Suggestion: Invite those in attendance who feel they have been hurt by the church to speak with a deacon after mass.

Response: We will look into scheduling this during certain times of the year.

Suggestion: Put in the bulletin an invitation to have people sign up to have their houses blessed.

Response: Again, please pray for vocations. There are over five thousand families in our parish and only two priests and two deacons.

Suggestion: For our sake, please for the sake of our souls re-institute the 33 signs of the cross.

Response: Mary Immaculate follows the General Instruction of the Roman Missal, the most recent version of which was published in 2002 and is authorized by the Pope.

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